When a couple is planning marriage and there is a need for a pre-nuptial agreement, most people would handle that task in a similar way; the person with the higher assets hires a lawyer to prepare a draft proposal and the bargaining begins. There is another way. Structure the task using two collaboratively trained attorneys, a neutral financial expert and a collaborative facilitator. Begin with disclosures to the financial neutral (required for a valid agreement), discuss your goals and concerns…